You are viewing [info]schofferhofer's journal

Previous 10

Mar. 26th, 2007

Me

A Bloody Disgrace

With a country of 1 Billion people, India is still unable to bring out the best Cricket players.
Out with the OLD, In with the NEW, I say...!!!

F*&^%$# bunch of Loosers the whole lot are...!!!
Tags: ,

Nov. 9th, 2006

Me

Do Your Part...

...To Leave A Better Tomorrow.

Having watched the film has changed my view on what I have to do, has it or will it do the same for you? You be the judge...

You can either make the time to watch the Film: An Inconvenient Truth...

OR

Visit the site: http://www.climatecrisis.net/

Sep. 4th, 2006

Me

Va Ji Va...

Shayari's that I wrote...

Nahi Ye Sach Nahi Ki Aap Naseeb Valey Ho
Nahi Ye Sach Nahi Ki Aap Naseeb Valey Ho
Humko Apna Bana Liya
Aur Samajtey Ho Ki Aap Naseeb Valey Ho
_________________________________________________________

yun ruthon na humsey
hum nahi jee payenge
aap agar baat ne kare
too hum mar jayenge
_________________________________________________________

aap ko dekhney ko dil chaahta hai
aap ko chooney ko dil chaahta hai
ye chaaht bhi hai aisi
key aap ko chaah kar rakhney ko dil chaahta hai
_________________________________________________________

aap hastey ho
tow sharma thai hai hum
aap jo sharma gaye
tow mar hi jatey hai hum
_________________________________________________________

vaisay too humney dekha hai aap ko, par sirf tasveeron mein
ru ba ru dekhne ka maza kuch aur hi hoga, humay malum hain
_________________________________________________________

Kehtey hai sabhi, aisa hi hota hai
naa sow saktey hai
naa hi sowney detey hai
Ishk hota hai, tow aisa hi hota hai

Kehtey hai sabhi, aisa hi hota hai
naa bhula saktey hai
naa hi bhulney detey hai
Ishk hota hai, tow aisa hi hota hai

Kehtey hai sabhi, aisa hi hota hai
muskuratein hai unko yaad kar
aur phir sharma jatey hai
Ishk hota hai, tow aisa hi hota hai
_________________________________________________________

Aapko bahut yaad kartey hain hum
Aapse pyar bhi utna hi kartey hain hum
Aapse agar na miley, tow udas hotey hain hum
_________________________________________________________

Buss Yunhi Tasveer Aap Ki Dekh Kar Nahi Gee Bharta
Buss Yunhi Avaz Aap Ki Sun Kar Nahi Gee Bharta
Buss Itni Tamana Hai Is Dil Ki, Hum Aap Key Kareb Ho, Aur Na Kabhi Ho Juda
_________________________________________________________

Jul. 13th, 2006

Me

Y or Why...?

If one is to look back at the history of the entire world, one would find that mostly, us, "humans", have wanted nothing more than to "acquire and keep acquiring" one thing after the other. This notion, of acquiring, can directly be related to "never having enough", I think!

Why? Why is it that we want to keep acquiring or keep thinking that we don't have enough? What are we going to do with everything we acquire. Eventually we all die and sometimes even way before we die we loose interest in the thing that we acquired, for instance, a shirt bought 1 year ago is not worn as often as the one that was bought 2 months ago.

A personal example of not having enough is when I used to get $70 per week from my guardian when I first moved to Australia. This used to suffice my needs of travel, entertainment and food while I was studying at University. Then I started working part-time and suddenly I was budgeting $100 per week plus about $200 per month on my credit card. I would find that $600 per month was not enough now that I was working. One can blame inflation or what have you, but is that all? Or is it also true that with the increase in income the standard of living has automatically gone up too. With having more at hand I am compelled to buy and acquire more materialistic things and keep finding myself with the notion of never having enough.

There are bigger things to this topic than just me, my shirt(s) that I don't wear and me never finding it enough.

History has shown us how People In Power have manipulated, cheated and twisted the facts to make us believe things that they want to acquire.

May that be a King wanting to rule another country or a Unique Leader wanting to acquire Oil fields in the name of War on Terror.

July 11, 2006, Mumbai Train Bomb Blasts, were also linked to the unresolved Jammu & Kashmir issue that has been going on since the partition of India and Pakistan in 1947. If, and only if this is the case, then once again we can see the loss of innocent lives because of the few that are adamant on holding their ground. I am not saying either one, India or Pakistan, is right or wrong to hold their ground, however, what I am saying is that after 50 odd years why has there not been an amicable resolution? I know, it is very easy for me to sit here in cool and cozy Melbourne, Australia and talk about why it is yet to be resolved after a good 50 odd years but still I write cause I wonder. Wonder about what has happened and the loss of lives for no apparent reason all around the world just cause some people want to get hold off or control certain things...

It is this need of acquiring that I see as being the doom of mankind more than the O-Zone layer or attack of aliens on the blue planet... The more we want to acquire the more we will find ways of doing it and the more, I forsee, being killed in the process.

It's #*&^%$ to say the least!

Quote:
“One can acquire everything in solitude - except character.”
- Stendhal, One of the most original and complex French writers of the 19th century.
Tags:
Me

"I Understand"

To understand: To know and be tolerant or sympathetic
(http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Understand)

Time and time again our undivided and unconditional efforts to make others understand how we are, how we feel, why we feel the way we do, things we say and the way we say them, comes naturally.

We seem to want others to understand us and we most definitely want others to understand the way we are. WHY? Why is it that we need to be understood? Is it because we aren't going to be accepted if we are completely misunderstood?

If I was to say to someone "I understand what you are saying" but don't necessarily agree with what it is that is or was being said, is it such a bad thing? Yes, surely makes us opinionated, even if being such, is not necessarily a good thing, but is it bad? Is it one or the other? Or is there a grey area like most things?

DARING: Go on. Get drunk before your big presentation :)

May. 22nd, 2006

Me

the next hour...

Everyday, I awake, and turn
Turn, I do, to face her
Her, who is sleeping next to me
Me, who wants her to wake
Wake her from the sleep with a whisper
Whisper of how much I love her...

May. 10th, 2006

Me

Lucky but Worried

I am 28.5 years old now and in all these years I have noticed something major about my life. Which is Luck! It always seems to favor me, Luck that is...
Doesn't matter the situation, something somehow someway works out to be in my favor. Especially when it is something that I want really bad.
For example, while I was doing my Undergrad I got my first job in my Industry with IBM. How did I get this job? I persuade the Recruitment Officer to give me a chance to prove myself, she trusts me, sends me off for an interview at IBM. I do ok, however the managers hire another guy instead of me. 2 days later I get a call from the Recruitment Officer that IBM wants me to start tomorrow because the guy they hired, they no longer like. I wanted the job really badly, and I got it.

Just as I finished my Undergrad, a mate of mine asked me if I wanted a job at HP, doing the same thing that I was doing at IBM, only with more money. I agreed. He recommended me and I got the job.
The guys that hired me, are some of the closest mates I have now.
Once again, lucky to have a mate recommend me.

There are many such situations where things have just, worked out!

However, there is a catch to me being lucky. I always worry...
Even though I know that somehow things are going to work out, not only because I'm lucky, but also because I may have knowingly or unknowingly put in the effort. I still worry, what if?
What if it doesn't, what do I do then?

We always say there needs to be a good balance between things, Yin-Yang, Black-White etc... I think whoever made me gave me awesome Luck and then gave me a brain filled with Worries. :)
Tags: ,

Apr. 15th, 2006

Me

the hour...

Everyday, I awake, and wait
And wait, I do, anxiously!
Anxiously for the hour to come
The hour, for when I can hear her speak
Speak of her waking up
Waking up from a dream
Dream she may have dreamt of me
Me, who is awake, waiting to hear her speak

I am now and forever yours!
- Husband

Mar. 29th, 2006

007

Want or Need...

There are so many things in life that can be talked about, however, the topic of "The Need and The Want" is most interesting, at least it is to me.

Need and want, according to some, maybe be considered to be fairly closely related. So much so that they could be considered the same thing. Some may say you can't need something if you dont want it and you cant want something until you think you need it. Depending on how you look at it. I think...well read on...

I come from an eastern indian background, now living in Melb, AU for a few years. I was introduced to wanting something as opposed to needing something fairly early on in life.

I was much younger when I was informed that I am going to 'need' to look after my parents when I grow up!

Even today, it makes me think as to why someone who was elder to me and had looked after his own parents would use the word NEED and make it sound as if it's a Chore.

It felt and it still does feel that using the word 'Want' puts a new tone to it, for instance, I want to look after my parents as opposed to I need to look after my parents!!!

One doesn't need to do anything that they don't want to when they feel that they need to and It's only worth doing once you really feel that you want to!!!

A few more examples:
- I need that pay raise OR I want that pay raise
- I need to be with that girl/guy OR I want to be with that girl/guy
- I need to buy a car OR I want to buy a car
- I need knowledge OR I want knowledge
- I need to be known and popular OR I want to be known and popular
- I need to live my life to the fullest OR I want to live my life to the fullest

If I was to define the words, this would be my definition...
The word need, to me is Desperation
The word want, to me is Aspiration

Look at it how you may, the opinion stands!

Fav One Liner: What if none of this existed? what if we were in someone's dream? - Woody Allen
007

Dedicated to my wife...

All my life, which in actual fact, is only a good part of the last 12 years or so, I have met all kinds of women. Women from different backgrounds, cultures, race, looks etc… I have dated almost all the women I have known and have enjoyed my time to say the least. I am not referring to just the physical aspect of enjoyment, but more so the whole thing about getting to know them, going out on dates, wining and dinning them etc… that too, I’m sure you agree, has a certain element of enjoyment in itself.

I now wear a ring on my left hand (that is so bling bling…) without which I don’t feel comfortable leaving the house. If for some reason I do happen to take it out, I feel the need to put it back on as soon as possible, and I’m someone that hates bling on him. I keep telling myself, this is not just any bling, it means something, it means that I belong to someone, someone special.

It has been a long and interesting journey for me and everyone that is connected to me in finding me someone like you, my wife! But I can say this confidently that it was worth the wait. There hasn’t been anyone from my past that compares to you.

It is true that we have spent very little time together since ours was an arranged marriage. However, the amount of time that we have spent has been nothing less than breathtaking. And I look forward to many more breathtaking moments and years with you.

You are so different, so unique.

I met you; I liked you, and now I love you…
Tags: ,

Previous 10

Me

March 2007

S M T W T F S
    123
45678910
11121314151617
18192021222324
25262728293031

Syndicate

RSS Atom
Powered by LiveJournal.com